Inspiring Human Potential – Inner Growth Mindset Insight of The Day 276 – Tending To The Ego’s Needs With Unconditional Love

As you allow yourself to tend to your ego’s (self’s) needs, you bring forth the very thing it seeks when it makes itself heard: unconditional love from the one person who can always understand the depths of it and what is going on.  It is not atypical for a person to seek outside when in need of something; it is a tendency from the moment we, as human beings, come into this world, that becomes our go-to mechanism.  However, when you realize (in neutrality mind and heart) that you can tend to all those needs that weren’t tended to by the external, you are able to move beyond in this area for your ego (self) for good. You also acknowledge that the ego (self) will still react with a want of that external’s support; whether through wanting approval, validation, engagement and so on. But through awareness and choice, you know you don’t need the external support because you are providing what’s being asked of you by the ego (self).  As you do this, inner growth takes place thanks to what you uncover in neutrality and with unconditional love in the forefront.  The expanded, adult ego/self, version of you begins to emerge; and from heart and mind (and body), you begin to tap into more of the infinite higher human potential of you that comes forth with this heightened inner awareness of your ego/self without judgement or condemnation or anything that is not in a learning, understanding, inner growth mindset.  You feel you, you are excited about you and the world, the relationships you have and build; everything stems from an unconditionally loving place thanks to the ego itself being unconditionally loved by you (from within mind, heart, and body); and therefore engaging with the external as a plus to yourself, not as a lack or a need.

Ultimately, your ego (self) has searched for answers to areas of insecurity and instability that were a part of each age of your existence in time.  The reason the ego (self) stays in this “child” format until you start tending to it with your unconditional love is due to the fact that essentially, it’s still seeking outside of itself when you are engaging with the external in a way that involves emotional and mental upset.  The upset feelings are what point within because it is in that moment that something unwanted, unexpected, or unknown is happening.  Like a “child” would react, without understanding what’s happening, so does the adult that doesn’t tend to the ego (self) in a way that evaluates what emotions and thoughts are happening as the reaction to the event is taking place.  This ownership is always available and becomes a chosen option for those who pursue inner growth and do so with unconditional love and neutrality at all times, toward ego/self, the external (including others), and life overall.  It is freeing for the ego (self) to finally be understood by you heart and mind in harmony, which is what allows you to move beyond in the way you see and feel about things in your day-to-day and long-term chosen path.