Inspiring Human Potential – Inner Growth Mindset Insight of The Day 243 – Love Doesn’t Hurt – Hurt Hurts and Love Loves

A closer look at the feelings of love and hurt allow a person to keep in mind that one feeling is love and brings love, and the other feeling is hurt and brings hurt.  Both feelings are a part of the emotions experienced and taught to human beings in different ways depending on family, examples by parents, books read, life explained by those one looks up to, and so on.  In fact, the idea that “love hurts” is a concept expressed, but are not the feelings themselves, which are two and each with their own definitions and physical attributes when felt.  The concept “love hurts” is just that, a concept.  With that knowledge an individual can pursue a different concept and acknowledge the two feelings in a way that uses love or neutrality (at the very least), to process what is a feeling of hurt with the feeling of love.  From this conscious choice, an individual gives their mind and heart the opportunity to follow a path of love in the face of hurt or love and therefore, move beyond a concept “love hurts” that essentially keeps a person stuck in the mind in regards to two feelings that are a part of life, and that can be received, processed and transformed with the choice of bringing forth the feeling of love and contemplating the hurt from a place of love and neutrality to move beyond in a loving way for self, others, and be an example to others too, which will help those in hurt to see that love has nothing to do with it, but that love can heal and help them, when they choose to use it.

Those individuals who are on an inner growth journey are the ones who easily see this opportunity and take it.  Through choosing love, one dives to the depths of the layers of being human being, the emotional and mental ones to name a few, and the process of expansion, healing, processing, begin.  Through the thought process of the things that are explored one identifies where the hurt is and is able to bring self-love, while understanding the deeper nature of the hurt connected to the ego/self (insecurities, societal validation, ego/self needs, wants, and so on).  With this clear in cosmic consciousness and with love in the forefront the person establishes the parameters that will satisfy love for self, acceptance of the external as is and proactive choices of what options are available, so next steps with what they can or can not do.  The breakdown of what is taking place is assisted thanks to neutrality and the ability to stay calm, which enables the brain to function at its best and keep moving forward in the solution realm for the person who is dealing with the hurt.  In seeing that love is love and can solve hurt for one’s inner ego/self, a person begins to experience self-empowerment and making choices from the heart for their hurt and love, all in a way that enables them to keep sharing love with self, others, life, and the world.